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Guest blog: does everyone know your name? March 7, 2008
On Thursday morning March 6 I hauled myself out of bed at dawn to attend Project Cornerstone’s Asset Champions Breakfast. So why should Silicon Valley parents care?

 

Well, if you aren’t familiar with Project Cornerstone, check out www.projectcornerstone.org. It’s good stuff and every parent in the valley should pay attention.

 

I won’t give you the marketing spiel but basically Project Cornerstone has identified things we should be doing that will help develop healthy, caring and responsible children. How can any parent argue with that?!

 

OK, you want the pitch? Here is it, direct from their Web site:

 

Project Cornerstone’s vision is simple —to build a web of support around every young person in our community. This web of support includes families, schools, community centers, faith communities and local businesses. Unfortunately, these resources are disconnected from each other and often from children and youth themselves. Project Cornerstone facilitates the connection of the separate parts of the web so that young people can count on individuals and organizations working together to provide them with consistent support and guidance.

 

The great thing about Project Cornerstone is that they have formalized programs but also just simple things we can be doing every day to make our youth feel valued.

 

Do you know the name of the children in your neighborhood? If not, learn them and greet them regularly.

 

Do you smile at children and say hello when you pass them on the street or in a store? It’s simple but it makes a difference.

 

At the breakfast yesterday, Misha Balangit, a senior at Gunderson High School, who was the Masters of Ceremony with Chief of Police Rob Davis summed it up: “You may not realize how a little thing can make such a big difference.”



Cheers,  Vikki Bowes-Mok, SiliconMom reader and contributor
2008-03-07 19:37:16 GMT
Comments (2 total)
Author:Anonymous
Thanks for reminding us about the simple things that make a big difference. I attended a Cornerstone seminar many years ago: delighted to be encouraged to be involved in the lives of youth, reminded that we're all in this together, that you really can make a difference in a kid's life, especially a teenager, by just taking an interest, smiling, using their name. I don't think we can be reminded often enough about our part in building strong communities.
2008-03-07 20:06:06 GMT
Author:Anonymous
Vikki,

I, too, attended the Cornerstone breakfast and was beyond inspired by my fellow 900 attendees who managed to get there by 7:00 am for this wonderful cause. I am already involved as the lead parent for our local middle school's parent group and am so proud of the efforts we have made toward fostering a caring school climate. To those who want success measured in numbers, studies show that a student's success at school is 50% due to how he or she FEELS at school. After attending that breakfast with so many amazing doers, I am inspired to do more. Thank you, Vikki, for shining some light on a great cause. It truly is as simple as greeting all young people by name, proving to them with your effort that they are not invisible members of our community who are merely the accessories of their parents.

Descending from my soapbox now...

Shana Moore
--Shana Moore
<http://www.caffeinatedponderings.com>
2008-03-19 01:03:45 GMT
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